Monday, February 7, 2011

The Power pt. 2

Alright, two posts in one day, but I needed a follow up to my previous post, Power. My desire was to instill a sense of confidence and power in my fellow females, but I have been informed that I may have also encouraged a bit of selfishness and a desire to get one’s own way. This was not my intention so here I hope to prevent any misconceptions by presenting a more balanced view.

My goal throughout this blog, as I have stated before and as I am sure to state again, is to help the women of Rexburg feel better about themselves. I am hoping that so far I have done a pretty good job. What I don’t want is to motivate the women of Rexburg to be overly demanding of the men we associate with. I want us to have a sense of equality. We should always be equal partners with our significant others, and neither member of the relationship should demand more from their partner than what they put in. Compromise is one of the fundamental aspects of any good relationship.

So yes, you can say no to "The Roommate" but maybe next week you can accompany him to see "Green Hornet".

Ladies (and gentlemen), remember that there should be equality in all things. Ladies, we can know that we are powerful creatures, but we also need to be careful with that power and use it with diplomacy. Sometimes it’s also good to say yes. Be discerning. You’ll know when is the right time to say yes and when it’s okay to say no. Trust your instincts and your guy will trust you.

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